But Society teaches all of us that to aggress against a woman is anti-social behavior . . . abuse. Men are trained from childhood to treat women as delicate creatures who need and desire respect. In actuality, women are strong and dynamic. Their bodies are designed to withstand intense stress. Women endure the horrific battery of childbirth and then joyfully choose to repeat the trauma. It should surprise no one that women have dark fantasies too. VERY dark, trust us.

Thus, for many dominants, confessing these tendencies to their partners can produce overwhelming feelings of fear and shame. The moment they are finally able to do so is frequently one of the most cathartic and transformative experiences of their lives. And when they finally muster the courage, they often find that their partners share their needs.

Based on our experience, we suspect that the vast majority of people respond to some sort of dominant and submissive cues.

But how does one explore these dark and scary tendencies? GinaSP provides a safe, welcoming and non-judgemental venue for the novice to express and become educated in his or her own inner nature. It is our special ability to help you to understand what you, or both you and your partner, are seeking. We can teach you how to make those fantasies take physical form in a beautiful, technically correct and responsible manner. During the session, we can provide – and sometimes even make – any equipment that you need for your fantasy’s fulfillment.

We can also act as a surrogate – either for you as a dominant or for your submissive partner – when one is needed. Frequently, even when both partners are aware of each others tendencies and desires they are incapable of playing with each other. Your wife may have rape fantasies but, even though you’re a dominant, you may find yourself incapable of helping her act them out. You’re just too close. Or your partner may accept your fantasies but not be able to help you fulfill them.

My role is often to step in and become an extension of your hand in your support of your partner. I take the place of the villain for many of our dominant clients, while they watch their partner and assist when it’s comfortable. Or Gina can be used to demonstrate to a submissive partner what they might experience.